By Eros

No 1: Verbal Communication 

Being the alpha male and the ultimate Sex King in the bedroom is in your hands and communication style. Unfortunately, not too many lessons are provided by fathers uncles or other senior relatives. Indeed, in most families, sex is often seen as something that a man will grow up and learn ‘somehow’ on his own or through friends.

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It is however no secret that every man wants to be the master in and out of the bedroom with his woman. Even your woman desires for you to drive her up the hill of passion ad ecstacy… to be the ultimate sex king for her at all times. Attaining that stellar height however starts long before you get into the bedroom. It begins with verbal communication, which is the foundation of a strong, intimate connection. Here’s how to master this crucial aspect.

Express Appreciation and Admiration:

Women love to feel valued and appreciated. Make it a habit to express what you admire about her. Compliments about her appearance, intellect, and the things she does for you can go a long way. Simple statements like “You look stunning today” or “I love the way you handle things with such grace” can boost her confidence and make her feel special.

Active Listening:

Communication is a two-way street. Listening actively shows that you care about her thoughts and feelings. When she talks, give her your full attention. Nod, maintain eye contact, and respond thoughtfully. This not only strengthens your bond but also makes her feel heard and understood.

Open Discussions About Sex:

Don’t shy away from discussing your sexual desires and fantasies. Encourage her to share hers as well. This creates a safe space where both of you can explore what you enjoy and what you want to try. Ask questions like “What do you like most during sex?” or “Is there something new you’d like to explore?” These conversations can enhance your sexual connection and lead to more satisfying experiences.

Use of Sexy and Sensual Language:

As the ultimate sex king, verbal arousal can be incredibly powerful. Use sexy and sensual language to build anticipation. Whispering sweet nothings in her ear, telling her how much you want her, and describing what you’re going to do to her can heighten the sexual tension. However, be mindful of her comfort level and preferences.

Encouragement and Reassurance:

During sex, verbal encouragement can boost her confidence and arousal. Phrases like “You feel amazing,” “I love the way you move,” or “You drive me wild” can enhance her pleasure and help her feel more secure and enthusiastic about the experience. Reassure her that she is desirable and that her pleasure is important to you.

Here are some key tips for effective verbal communication during sex:

Communicate your desires and preferences directly. Use “I” statements to express what you like, such as “I really enjoy when you touch me here” or “I would love it if you went a little slower.” This creates openness and allows your partner to better understand your needs.

Start with something positive. Acknowledge what you already enjoy about your partner’s touch or technique. This sets a constructive tone and makes your partner more receptive to feedback.

Think about your intention. If there’s something holding you back from being fully open, express that as well. For example, “I want to try something new, but I’m a little nervous. Could we take it slow?”

Use soft, sensual language. Avoid overly clinical terms and instead describe the sensations and emotions you’re experiencing, like “That feels amazing” or “I love how that makes me feel.”

Be patient and understanding. Your partner may feel shy or uncomfortable at first. Approach the conversation with empathy and avoid pressuring her to discuss more than she’s ready for.

Communicate non-verbally too. Guiding your partner’s hands, moving your body, and making sounds can all be powerful ways to give feedback without words.

The key is to make sexual communication a regular, judgment-free part of your intimate connection. With practice, it can greatly enhance pleasure, intimacy and satisfaction for both partners.

Giving Feedback:

To give feedback to your partner during sex effectively, consider the following tips from the provided sources:

Start with the positive: Begin by acknowledging what is working well or what you enjoy during the intimate moment. This sets a positive tone and helps your partner understand what pleases you.

Say what you want: Be clear and direct about your desires and preferences. Use specific language to communicate your needs, whether it’s about speed, position, intensity, or any other aspect of the experience.

Focus on what feels good: Pay attention to what brings you pleasure and make sure to highlight those aspects. By emphasizing what is working, you guide your partner on what actions to continue.

Practice, Practice, Practice: Effective communication during sex requires practice. The more you engage in open dialogue with your partner, the better you both will become at understanding each other’s desires and needs.

Remember, feedback during sex is crucial for enhancing intimacy and pleasure for both partners. By being open, honest, and constructive in your communication, you can create a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experience.

Create a Safe and Non-Judgmental Environment: Establish an atmosphere of trust, empathy and openness where both partners feel comfortable expressing their thoughts, desires and concerns without fear of criticism or rejection.

Use “I” Statements: Communicate your needs and preferences using “I” statements rather than accusatory “you” language. This helps avoid putting your partner on the defensive.

Start positively: Begin the conversation by acknowledging what is working well in your sexual relationship and what you appreciate about your partner. This sets a constructive tone.

Be Patient and Understanding: Recognize that your partner may feel shy, uncomfortable or have past traumas that make sexual communication difficult. Approach the conversation with empathy and avoid pressuring them.

Invite your woman to share: Encourage your partner to openly express their own needs, desires and boundaries. Listen attentively without interrupting to foster mutual understanding.

Suggest alternatives: If your partner is resistant to certain sexual acts, propose alternative ways to be intimate that may be more comfortable for them.

Seek professional help: If challenges persist despite your efforts, consider consulting a sex therapist or relationship counselor who can provide guidance on improving sexual communication.

The key is to approach the conversation with care, respect and a willingness to compromise. By creating a safe space for open and honest dialogue, you can work together to enhance your sexual intimacy and satisfaction.

Remember your ultimate goal

Remember, to be the ultimate sex king for your woman, she must be made to feel like your queen!